Holy humidity, Northern Virginia. It’s poured rain or drizzled just about every day this entire month. Seriously, September? You’re supposed to be cool-ish and dry. My frizzy hair sends its regrets.

But no matter because October is looking good.

+Kate and I are planning a trip to Cox Farm’s with our playgroup pals for all the cider-drinking and corn-maze fun we can handle.

+The lovely, Kat, is visiting a friend in the D.C. area and making time to visit with me. Three cheers for blogger friends.

+I’m putting the finishing touches on my new blog design. I’ve been working with Alexis Grant on a slightly new direction and focus, so while this month has been drizzly, it has also been super inspiring. My creative muscle hurt real bad. (PS – If you missed my posts asking for introductions and reader feedback, it’s not too late – leave a comment anytime.)

+A couple of my girlfriends and I are starting up a cooking club, and this month we are taking on tamales. Results to follow.

+October’s social calendar is busting at the seams with my mom’s group’s annual Halloween party, get togethers with friends, and Dan’s birthday.

+Executing my fall to dos.

What are you looking forward to in October? Baking any fall treats? Picking pumpkins? Trying something new? Tell me about it!


Rachel, Tessica, Sarah, me, Becky, Lisa, and Karin (not pictured Ashely and Lauren; photo by Ashley)

When I started blogging, I never imagined it would lead to friendships. On it’s face, blogging can seem like a solitary endeavor. Just you, your thoughts, your pictures, your words. But blogging is so much more than that. It’s a way to make connections with other bloggers who just happen to live in your neighborhood or bloggers who live several states away.

So when Ashley invited me to a blogger brunch, I jumped at the opportunity to connect with local bloggers over omelets and coffee rather than emails and Twitter.

Someone said it was kind of like a first date, all of us meeting each other for the first time. But there was no need to feel awkward because these ladies are kind, supportive, and have lots of great nail polish recommendations.

Blogging can get a bad rap. Putting yourself on the Internet can come with mean commenters, hurt feelings, snarkiness, and competitiveness. But, there’s another side, too.

My Happiness Project this month focused on building confidence. It definitely takes confidence to put yourself out there on a blog – and to meet up with people you only know from the Internet. And that’s the positive side of blogging. Trying something new, confidently expressing yourself, meeting new people, being a support to other bloggers, bringing about a positive sense of community.

I cannot wait to meet up with these ladies again and to continue to meet bloggers. In fact, I am planning to attend Blissdom this February both for blog inspiration and to meet my blogging friends in real life. If you are a DC metro area blogger, let me know! Or if you are traveling to the DC area, let’s meet up. How do you connect with your Internet friends?


1. Camelbak Classic Hydration Pack: Since I’ve taken to cycling outside (as opposed to my air conditioned spin class), I’ve pinned for a Camelbak hydration pack for easy water drinking while cycling. So, for my birthday, Dan surprised me and bought me a red Camelback pack to match my bike. It is the perfect size and features extra pockets for keys, cell phone, etc… I am considering wearing it around the house instead of drinking out of a glass.

2. C9 by Champion Power Workout Tee: I prefer to work out in actual work out clothes rather than ratty old college t-shirts. Something about wearing a relatively put together/cute-ish gym outfit makes me feel more inspired to exercise. Also, clothes made for working out breathe better and launder better than regular t-shirts. Since my budget does not allow me to shop at Lululemon and the like, I stick to Target. These Champion work out t-shirts are fantastic. They are light-weight, sweat-wicking, and cheap-o. They lay nicely and don’t ride up all through even the most vigorous step class.

3. Physician’s Formula Shimmer Strips Gel Cream Liner (for blue eyes): Eyeliner is tricky tricky. Pencil, liquid, gel. They’ve each got their challenges. That being said, I like these gel cream liners from Physician’s Formula. The consistency is pretty easy to work with and apply. The liner stays put and each of the three colors really make my eyes pop.

4. Kashi Go Lean: Oh, Kashi. Yum yum yum yum yum. I have always been and always will be a cereal girl. I survived college eating cereal for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. So when I discovered Kashi Go Lean, I knew I found my forever favorite cereal. It has a good crunch, isn’t loaded with sugar, and fills me up. But, hey, Kashi, you should probably rethink the description “fiber twigs.”

5. Purpose Dual Treatment Moisture Lotion: I posted last week on my skin care routine and my struggles with acne. In addition to those products, I also use this moisturizer in the morning after I get out of the shower and in the evening after I wash my face. This lotion never irritates my skin and doesn’t feel oily.

Okay, you tell me, what are you loving in September?


I’m always on the hunt for my next project, goal, or thing to do. Some stuff I come up with on my own. But more often than not, I find something that inspires me to serve as my jumping off point.

But finding inspiration can be tricky. And sometimes I think I’m never going to be inspired again, I’ve used up all the inspiration there is. But then something will catch my eye and off I go.

So, here are some places where I find inspiration:

1. Blogs. I read tons and tons and tons of blogs. I look forward to getting up every morning and reading through my favorites blogs. I always find inspirational pictures, words, and ideas. My Google Reader is full of every time of blog – crafting blogs, lifestyle blogs, writing blogs, etc… So next time you go through your Reader, read posts for entertainment but also use blogs to inspire you.

2. Pinterest. Playing around in Pinterest is a fine line for me. Sometimes I find myself spending too much time looking at other people’s projects instead of making time for my own projects. So I limit how much time I spend messing around on Pinterest as not to get too sucked in and fail to pursue my own stuff. But it is a great source for finding fresh and inspiring projects. Make sure to pin your own stuff, so others can use your projects for inspiration.

3. Magazines. I love reading Real Simple, Parenting, In Style, Marie Claire, Martha Stewart Living, and Whole Living. I find inspiration for blog posts from the articles I read, I like seeing what color pallets are in vogue, and different photography styles.

4. Ads/commercials/brochures/business cards. Whenever I’m out and about, I know I’ll see and hear a variety of promotional materials. The way businesses and groups market their events and services can be really creative. Don’t dismiss junk mail or business cards at a restaurant. Businesses often have the most interesting color combinations, fonts, and designs.

5. My own notebooks. I always carry some sort of notebook because I never know when I might come up with an idea for a blog post, I picture I want to take, a color combination, or even just a grouping of words I find particularly interesting. Every couple of days I’ll go through what I wrote down to see if anything resonates with me. Sometimes not, and that’s fine. But sometimes I come up with the best ideas from random stuff I write down.

6. Friends and family. I love talking out my ideas with my family and friends. They know me best, so they help me flush out my ideas. I take inspiration from their take on my ideas for blog posts or projects. They often have other view points or think of a way to improve on my idea.

7. Google. Sometimes I’ll just Google and see what I can find. Let’s say I am interested in…herb gardens. I’d Google around on variations of the phrase herb gardens, and I am sure I will find not only information on herb gardens but also pictures and recipes and vlogs and who knows what else. Just watch out if you Google “poison ivy.” There is a lot more information on how to make a sketchy looking Halloween costume than actual information on poison ivy.

8. Browsing. I am sure you run several errands a week. The grocery, Target, CVS, etc… I spend a good deal of my week at various stores, so I use the opportunity to see what speaks to me. Maybe a display will trigger an idea. Or I might see some packaging I like. Take a picture of it with your phone and/or write down some notes. I make boring errands fun when I keep my eyes open for something that might piqued my interest.

Think of finding inspiration like being on a game show. Go about your day and see how many ordinary things, shapes, colors, and ideas that you can turn into something interesting. But also, don’t take it too seriously. Whenever I force something, it never works, so I try to let inspiration find me.

How do you find inspiration and stay inspired?


Thank you to everyone who introduced themselves in Friday’s post! If you did not get a chance to tell me about yourself Friday, it’s not too late! Please leave me a comment and tell me about yourself. (Or email me at sarahrosemary at gmail dot com. Or find me on Twitter.) I’d love to hear from you.

Today, I’d love for you to tell me what you like to read here on my blog. I am in the midst of a blog redesign and a little refocus (thanks to the help of the lovely and talented Alexis Grant. More on her later). I cannot wait to unveil my new design and slight redirection (hopefully in a week or two). In that vein, I want to hear from you – tell me what kinds of posts you like to read, let me know what you’d like me to expand on, what would you be interested in reading?

(Pst…over the weekend I met up with a group of local bloggers. Check out this post from Becky for a preview on our girly get together. Obviously, nail polish was discussed at length.)


You know my name is Sarah. And I know a lot of my readers. But if you haven’t introduced yourself in the comments, I would love for you to do that today! I know, commenting can be awkward. But, it is a great opportunity to get to know other readers. Some of my favorite bloggers I met via the comments section other other blogs.

So, please tell me your name, (if you have a blog) one of your favorite recent posts, share a link to another blogger you love, and a little about yourself.

I’ll go first.

I’m Sarah. My favorite post from this week was the one I wrote about friendship. I also discovered a new blog this week (via my pal Marie) called Blonde and Balanced. I am so glad she introduced me to Amber, the writer behind Blonde and Balanced. As a young newlywed balancing life, health, and money, I can so relate. Something about me…I want to know about you!

Okay, your turn!

(PS – You can always email me at sarahrosemary at gmail dot com if you’d rather.)


I quit my job and never looked back after Kate was born. I was itching for something different, I couldn’t find quality daycare, and the timing just happened to work out. So I left my job and became a stay at home mom exclusively for the next 10 months.

Around the time Kate turned six months, I felt much more confident in my mothering abilities and Kate, as a robust six month old, did not need as much round the clock mothering as a newborn. So I felt a little freer and finally able to turn some attention to me.

I put some feelers out there on possible part time, flexible employment I could do from home while Kate napped or in the evenings after she went to bed. I got more involved in my mom’s group. This blog became more than a daily writing exercise.

After some searching and thinking and figuring out what would work best for our family, I found some slightly more than part time employment that gives me an outlet for my interests and talents, I became the president of my mom’s group, and this blog became a source of community, expression, and a much needed outlet for my personal growth.

So within a twelve month period, I’ve gone from full-time employment at a traditional 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. to a full-time stay at home mom with not much going on to a work at home/stay at home mom who works a good 30 hours a week, runs her mom group, and manages a blog.

It’s kind of a lot.

It’s also all good things. Stuff I love doing. Things that make me feel full inside.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t feel the pressure to be a super mom, super employee, super blogger, super mommy group leader, super friend, super dinner-maker and household cleaner. And sometimes I feel like cashing in, giving up, and doing nothing. But I know deep down, I don’t want to quit or give up on all the opportunities I’m grateful for and cultivated so carefully.

So, where does that leave me? A good deal of the pressure is self-imposed. Realizing I don’t need to do everything 110% where 50% will do truly relieves stress and pressure. I work hard to remember the principle of “good enough” some days. And I don’t need to accomplish everything at warp speed when slow and steady would work just fine.

I love having a lot going on. And this work at home/stay at home mom thing presents interesting and wonderful opportunities. And gives me time to be Sarah, herself, and Sarah, the mom. I look forward to sharing more about my experience balancing this new chapter and taking the time to appreciate my full life.


My personality is definitely more golden retriever than aloof house cat. I am a people pleaser, I like to make people happy, I don’t like that icky feeling I get when I think someone is upset with me.

Which is all well and good because being nice to people is, well, nice. I like to be nice. I am a nice girl. And I just don’t believe that nice girls finish last.

But sometimes being the nice girl can be not so nice for me. Because when people don’t respond to my niceness, I think I must be malfunctioning. There must be something wrong with me if so-and-so does not seem to want to be my friend.

My people pleasing Miss Nicey Nice personality can get pretty bruised. What is it about me you don’t like?!

But now, in my late 20s, after more experiences with the work place, social circles, clubs and organizations, and the like, I realized something. It’s so not about me.

When I would get all in a twit in high school about friends or acquaintances and thinking people didn’t like me, my mom bestowed one of the best slices of wisdom I’ve ever received. She said, Sarah, really, not everyone is thinking about you. So for all those times Sarah Miss Nice-a-lot wondered what she did that made so-and-so not interested in friendship, I know realize it was nothing I did. So-and-so and I just did not click. And it’s got nothing to do with me.

This became more apparent after I became more involved in my moms groups and various other circles. I finally had to realize that not everyone is going to be my friend. And that’s okay!

But even after I learn these lessons, I still need reminders. So here’s a few things this recovering people pleaser keeps in mind:

1. Forget about those who are just not into you. It’s okay. It say nothing about you. Or them. Don’t psychoanalyze and run through various scenarios about what went wrong. Just move on.

2. Focus on the people who do respond to you. It is easy for me to instantly forget all the nice experiences I had with various people if I get one cold interaction with someone. That can throw me for a loop. So instead of ruminating on why so-and-so said that to me or ignored me or what have you, I work on nurturing my positive relationships with people who do care about me.

3. Be you. You don’t need to change to make others accept you. If you need to be someone else around a certain person, maybe they aren’t worth being around.

Everyone wants to be liked. Who doesn’t? It is just the simple truth that we can’t be friends with everyone. But we can and should cherish and foster those relationships with people who do provide us with warm fuzzies (I’m looking at you, Marie). Because those are the people worth thinking about.


Acne has been my nemesis for years. It hasn’t always been that way. Actually, in high school, breakouts were few and far between. But something happened when I went to college. I am guessing a combination of extreme stress and hormones and who-knows-what-else contributed to outbreaks like nothing I’ve ever experienced.

I remember this one day so vividly, I feel like it happened yesterday. At the time, I took on the position as the News Editor for the Cavalier Daily (U.Va.’s student-run newspaper). On top of that 40-hour-a-week job, I loaded up on 18 credit hours. A totally awesome idea.

Anyway, after an extremely long day, I remember standing in front of the mirror that night (or I suppose morning at that point) and crying as I took out my contacts because somehow that day the entire bottom half of my face erupted with the meanest, red-est, most painful cluster of pimpled my face had ever experienced.

College stress did a number on my face, and it showed. I thought I was just going to be like that. Until a nice doctor at student health asked me if I also wanted help with my face when I came in for sinus congestion. She said she saw it all the time. And every time a stressed out undergrad came in for unrelated colds, sore throats, or some other highly communicable disease, she ended up helping them with acne, too.

So I tried a couple things here and there as an undergrad and some other stuff after I graduated with my local dermatologist. See, I have horribly oily skin, so I have to be careful what products I put on my face. And I’m always on the lookout for good products that help us poor, oily skin gals.

When I happened upon the Neutrogena Wave power cleanser I was skeptical. But it was pretty cheap, compared to other cleansing systems. And I wanted something that would help turn my skin cells over and keep oil at bay. So I figured, at this inexpensive price point, it was worth a shot.

Wow. I am impressed. The scrubbing pads are rough, but not too rough. Just the right amount of exfoliatation. My face feels softer, smoother, and more even. What’s more, I even noticed an marked improvement on the look of my old acne scars.

After power cleansing, I cover my face in this Freeman Facial Masque in Avocado and Oatmeal. Holy salicylic acid, this stuff is awesome. It smells great and makes my skin feel like its being manually tightened. After I wash it off, my face is incredibly smooth.

Besides these two things, I also wash my face with a prescribed cleaner and top off my face with a retin A treatment every night. I also take a prescription acne medication (no, definitely not Accutane), which also helps with the oil (if you want specifics, feel free to email me. If you are local and want a good dermatologist, I have a recommendation, too).

If you are an acne sufferer, don’t suffer! Try these products, get yourself a good dermatologist who, with the right meds, can clear you right up. For the first time in a long time, I feel comfortable without heavy foundation and concealer. And I am forever grateful for that kind doctor who told me I did not have to live with my stress-induced acne.

(PS – Neutrogena and Freeman have no idea who Sarah Bagley is. I purchased these items and reviewed them because they helped me.)


Do you know my sweet blogger friend, Kat? No? Well then hop on over to her blog right now because girlfriend is a delight. And I am pretty sure she is me, the couple-years-younger, also-a-Virgo, midwest version.

So, the darling Miss Kat tagged me in the Fall Five challenge (you can read hers here), and of course, I obliged as nothing gets me more excited than lists of goals, sweaters, and a good dose of pumpkin-spiced baked goods.

1. Take Kate to get a pumpkin. I hope to take her to an actual pumpkin patch place complete with corn maze and a tractor ride. (Locals, any suggestions?) But, at the very least, the Bagley family needs a pumpkin.

2. Get some fall wardrobe staples. I’ve never been so many sizes in so few years. Over the past two years, I’ve been not pregnant, pregnant, super pregnant, post partum squishy, breastfeeding, and now back to prebaby. So some stuff is too big and some stuff just doesn’t fit right. So I could use some new jeans, maybe some cords, long sleeve t’s, drapey cardigans (Do you like that word I made up? You know what I am talking about, those open, swingy, cardigans), and some ballet flats that don’t fall apart (Or maybe take the plunge and get some Toms). Any suggestions? I’ve been to my usual go-to places – Macys, Old Navy, and Target – with zero luck.

3. Experiment with fall polish. So far, so good.

4. Bake up some spicy fall treats. Perhaps something pumpkin-y or apple-y. With cinnamon, of course.

5. Find a way for me to enjoy the upcoming holiday season – in my own way. Holidays aren’t my…favorite. I so want to like holiday decorating and cards and the like, but I just can’t quite get it together. Maybe this year.

Okay, that’s my list. So now it’s your turn. What’s on your fall to do list?