If I’m not on a quest for self improvement, I don’t know what to do with myself.  I’m constantly coming up with projects and challenges and lists.  Improve, take on more, try new things.

I don’t do this to be better than others.  I’m not one for competition.  It’s an inate quest to do more, be more, acheive more, try more.  I’m afraid that if I stop lunging myself forward, I’ll sink.

So when September 1 rolls around, I get to thinking about my birthday and what I want to accomplish this year.  My mind fills with fitness goals and health goals and home goals and craft goals and baking goals and friendship goals and writing goals and blogging goals.  More, more, more goals!

I thought about implementing all sorts of challenges and documenting my progress.  But as I came up with ideas, I realized how many things I’ve already done.

I taught myself HTML and redesigned this blog half a dozen times.  I learned more settings on my DSLR.  I started up my freelance writing business, published, became part of Stratejoy’s Season 6 blogger team.  Became a Les Mills Certified BodyStep instructor, and six months later I’m teaching three to four times a week.

Younger Sarah would have said so what?  What’s next?

But this wiser 28-year-old Sarah says what wonderful accomplishments.  What would happen if I savored theses accomplishments instead of constantly making, acheiving, and shoving goals out of the way and onto the next thing?

That sounds nice to me.

And I’m not worried about losing my energy and enthusiasm for challenges because that’s just who I am.  I’m pretty sure I will always be challenging myseld in some way or another.  But I want to add savoring and enjoying success into that equation and feeling good about what I’ve done instead of eating up another goal in an endless quest to fill up inside.

Goals and challenges and projects are good.  But what good are they if you don’t enjoy them?  Here’s to 28.


  • ME

    How right you are-enjoy the moment, the day, the week, the month, the year! They slip by so quickly….

    • http://www.sarahrosemary.com Sarah Bagley

      Yes, very true :)

  • Marie

    Happy, happy birthday to you, dear one! Three cheers for celebrating accomplishments! I know we both have trouble doing that sometimes but it’s so important to do. Hooray for a wonderful, big year for you and here’s to a great year ahead!

    • http://www.sarahrosemary.com Sarah Bagley

      Thank you, sweet friend :)

  • Erin C

    Happiest birthday, Sarah. I think these are freaking incredible achievements. I hope you had the most incredible birthday and an even better year!

  • Erin C

    Also, would it be okay if I used your graphic “hello, 28″ on my birthday post today if I give you full credit for it? Today’s my birthday and I was just writing a blog about it. :)

  • Erin C

    Ahh, my message disappeared…. What I originally wrote (well, something like what I wrote) was: You have accomplished so many incredible amazing things. Be proud of yoruself. I think this is an excellent attitude to enter your 28th year. Enjoy. Hope you had a wonderful birthday and an even better year.

    • http://www.sarahrosemary.com Sarah Bagley

      Thank you, thank you! I appreciate your sweet comment :) Yes! Feel free to use my graphic. And happy birthday to you!

  • Sandra St. Hilaire

    Congrats on a great year Sarah! Here’s wishing you another year of happiness, fun diy projects, great blog posts, body step, and lots of whipped cream.
    xo

  • http://lavieoverseas.com/ Natasha

    Talk about being late to the party — catching up on my blog reading! Happy, happy belated birthday! You definitely have accomplished so much, and should savor and enjoy those things!